If you feel like your body type gets in the way of looking your best, maybe you’re just not making the best choices. Don’t be embarrassed about shopping in the “Women’s” department, the “Petite” section or a “Big and Tall” store if that’s where you’ll find the clothing that fits you best. If you’re accustomed to buying your clothes at discount stores, investing in some more expensive but high-quality pieces can result in a better fit because of the better craftsmanship.

Support garments like control-top pantyhose can improve your silhouette and the way you feel about yourself.

Jewelry can add to a polished look. Select pieces that complement and mesh with your chosen style. Don’t forget other details as well when you choose accessories. A stylish hat or a fun pair of shoes can bring it all together.

Glasses are another issue when it comes to accessorizing. Some people hate the idea of wearing glasses because they think they look too bookish or it makes them feel old to need reading glasses. Contacts or laser eye surgery may be a suitable option if the idea of wearing glasses is that hateful and detrimental to self-confidence. Alternately, some use their need to wear glasses as an opportunity to show their fashion sense. They choose stylish or trendy frames that complement their faces and improve their confidence in their overall appearance.

Now you’re sure to run into people along the way who just want to bring you down. They may scoff at your personal style or your lack of designer clothing or any other detail they can think of to make them feel better about themselves.

Know that this will happen and prepare for it. Whether you want to create snappy comebacks ahead of time or you just want to brace yourself for an insult, being prepared will keep the hateful words from sinking in and affecting the way you feel about your dress. If you’re facing these attacks regularly, it may be time to find a new group of friends, remove yourself from the situation, or whatever would lead to a happier you.

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