While it’s nice to think that appearances don’t matter, the fact is that you clothes can have an effect on your self-confidence. That said, the only important thing is how you feel about the clothing you wear, not what others may think about it. Dress in a way that makes...

Denial is not just a river in Egypt. More than narcissism, perfectionism, the drive to overachieve, or to keep yourself from achievement, denial will put the breaks on your dreams. Denial is the refusal to be held accountable for your actions. The Blame Game. Pointing the finger. When you give...

Being unemployed can certainly be a blow to your self-confidence. That doesn’t mean these feelings should get in the way of a successful job search. The first step to feeling confident about your job search is to let go of any lingering bad thoughts from the past. If you left...

Dealing with negative friends can be tough, but negative family can be a nightmare. Some people will feel you owe them just because you’re related. Others will drain on your emotions until you have no energy left to make decisions, or progress of your own. Being robbed of this power...

Surprisingly, human beings are born narcissistic. As infants we’re completely enthralled with ourselves. Everything in the Universe revolves around the Big Me, and “the other people” exist merely to fit our needs. This attitude continues into childhood, until we begin to care about other people in a similar way to...

Amy seems like a self-confident girl. She runs a business from home, and raises her young son on her own. Though she dates and spends time with friends, she makes sure her sitters are skilled and she isn’t gone too late. From an outward perspective, Amy looks as though she’s...

Every once in awhile you’ll find a person who is completely satisfied with his situation. He likes his job, he has good friends, and a warm family. Generally, he feels content. This is a self-confident man. Then, one day, new computers arrive into work, and out of the blue, he’s...